Mondae Rain
9:31pm Sat 18th December 2006 Rainy Night
37 days since i last updated my blog... tats more than a month i guess, things happened as fast as they could, really snappy... pple come and go, friendship built, peace interrupted, work appreciated, morale shaken, lessons learned... but at the end of the day, i guess i am still happy... happy to be here. =)
Read an interesting article on Life Section of Straits Times todae, tot maybe i share it here.
Getting to grips with a woman's ire
I have always thought that the reason men get into so much trouble with women is that men are insensitive clods. That's y man is forever apologising to the women for some disgression or other. While women for some reason, never seems to do anything wrong. They dun even break a wind.
I wondered if the modern women was exploiting men's 'insensitive' reputation and then using anger and a remarkable ability to cry on demand as a way to gain relationship leverage.
One night out wif the boys after abt five or six beers-- i decided that the answer is YES.
What ultimately sway my decisions were the stories my friends told of their run ins with their gfs. JT told of the time he was hit by a gf's anger tsunami becoz he didnt tok to her enough at a inner party. Wats interesting is that many of the other guys were at this same party and mainly chatted among themselves while the girls engaged in their girl talk. No one evidently not even JT noticed anything amiss.
That is until he went home and she gave him a dreaded silent treatment.
This led me to a few observationabt the nature of female anger.
Observation 1: Woman wld rather get angry wif man than get wat they wan. If there is an opportunity to get wat they wan, a woman will wait until it closes so that she can get really angrywith a man and he cannot do anything about it.
Observation 2: Woman often commit the same crime as menbut dun get it trouble for it.
Observation 3: A man will not always know wat he did to make a woman angry. Woman are always aware of this and often entertain themselves by making men squirm as they are made to guess what their crime is.
even at the off chance men get it right, woman will nvr admit it.
Girl: Do you even noe why i am so angry wif u?
Me: Because I made u wait at te bus stop for two hours in the pouring rain while i went to play computer games?
Girl: No. its abt Respect.
Observation 4: A woman is capable of getting angry at nearly anything.
Observation 5: If for some reasons a woman cannot find anything to get angry with, she will devise one.
Looking at it all together, I am forced to conclude that woman secretly dun mind alot of the stuff we do. They must enjoy the power trip they get from being angry.
So wat's a poor guy to do? Ignoring it is possible if u dun mind dying alone. I say play them at their own game. Next time she does smth that could, in theory upset u. --- Cry
--- Jeremy Au Yong
Pretty interesting article isnt it? but i guess those guys whom have not been thru any relationship at all will buy the whole thing written above entirely.. though i wun deny agreeing to some of the observations made. :P well i guess girls seek love and attention more than guys... sadly, guys are nvr the best creatures to express their love not even to the same girl they will ever loved their whole life.
Trust me, I am a pathetic good example of that.
Anyway.. Xmas is coming, ...season of sharing and love.. I will probably be at home on Xmas eve or hiding at one corner of some quiet cafe serving hot mocha, reading a story book, fairy tale of "The Little Prince" a fren gave me. Thks for the book, really appreciate it. u noe who u are. =)
night
Bryan
37 days since i last updated my blog... tats more than a month i guess, things happened as fast as they could, really snappy... pple come and go, friendship built, peace interrupted, work appreciated, morale shaken, lessons learned... but at the end of the day, i guess i am still happy... happy to be here. =)
Read an interesting article on Life Section of Straits Times todae, tot maybe i share it here.
Getting to grips with a woman's ire
I have always thought that the reason men get into so much trouble with women is that men are insensitive clods. That's y man is forever apologising to the women for some disgression or other. While women for some reason, never seems to do anything wrong. They dun even break a wind.
I wondered if the modern women was exploiting men's 'insensitive' reputation and then using anger and a remarkable ability to cry on demand as a way to gain relationship leverage.
One night out wif the boys after abt five or six beers-- i decided that the answer is YES.
What ultimately sway my decisions were the stories my friends told of their run ins with their gfs. JT told of the time he was hit by a gf's anger tsunami becoz he didnt tok to her enough at a inner party. Wats interesting is that many of the other guys were at this same party and mainly chatted among themselves while the girls engaged in their girl talk. No one evidently not even JT noticed anything amiss.
That is until he went home and she gave him a dreaded silent treatment.
This led me to a few observationabt the nature of female anger.
Observation 1: Woman wld rather get angry wif man than get wat they wan. If there is an opportunity to get wat they wan, a woman will wait until it closes so that she can get really angrywith a man and he cannot do anything about it.
Observation 2: Woman often commit the same crime as menbut dun get it trouble for it.
Observation 3: A man will not always know wat he did to make a woman angry. Woman are always aware of this and often entertain themselves by making men squirm as they are made to guess what their crime is.
even at the off chance men get it right, woman will nvr admit it.
Girl: Do you even noe why i am so angry wif u?
Me: Because I made u wait at te bus stop for two hours in the pouring rain while i went to play computer games?
Girl: No. its abt Respect.
Observation 4: A woman is capable of getting angry at nearly anything.
Observation 5: If for some reasons a woman cannot find anything to get angry with, she will devise one.
Looking at it all together, I am forced to conclude that woman secretly dun mind alot of the stuff we do. They must enjoy the power trip they get from being angry.
So wat's a poor guy to do? Ignoring it is possible if u dun mind dying alone. I say play them at their own game. Next time she does smth that could, in theory upset u. --- Cry
--- Jeremy Au Yong
Pretty interesting article isnt it? but i guess those guys whom have not been thru any relationship at all will buy the whole thing written above entirely.. though i wun deny agreeing to some of the observations made. :P well i guess girls seek love and attention more than guys... sadly, guys are nvr the best creatures to express their love not even to the same girl they will ever loved their whole life.
Trust me, I am a pathetic good example of that.
Anyway.. Xmas is coming, ...season of sharing and love.. I will probably be at home on Xmas eve or hiding at one corner of some quiet cafe serving hot mocha, reading a story book, fairy tale of "The Little Prince" a fren gave me. Thks for the book, really appreciate it. u noe who u are. =)
night
Bryan
posted by Bryan at 6:46 PM
1 comments
